• threaten to kidnap or kill the children
  • punish or deprive the children when mad at you
  • call you a bad parent
  • use visitation to harass you
  • tell the children things to affect their opinion of you or demean you in front of them
  • refuse to participate in the care of the children
  • use the children to make you feel guilty
  • threaten to sexually abuse the children if you won’t have sex