- put you in fear through looks, gestures or actions
- smashed things
- destroyed things of value to you
- injured or killed pets to frighten you
- threatened to hurt/kill someone you love
- displayed weapons in a threatening way
- cleaned weapons immediately after or during a threatening argument
- threatened to leave you or commit suicide
- made you commit illegal acts
- threatened to report illegal acts or report you to welfare or child abuse investigators
- said he’ll/she’ll never let you leave him